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Aliyah's avatar

That last line 💔 this piece touched my soul.

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Katy de Jongh's avatar

Mine too 💔 thank you for reading

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Niki Fox Elenbaas's avatar

Oh, Katy. I am undone by your eloquent and heartfelt tribute.

Fuck, indeed.

Your dad's laugh and guitar riffs gave me great joy was since I was 18 and making all new friends, far from home. The Vashon flock folded me into their magic, changing this Minnesota girl for the good.

It's crushing to know that Vol and we cannot continue the process of reconnecting every few years. I'm just sorry those overlaps didn't include knowing you more closely.

Jamie and I send our hopes for grace and comfort for you and your siblings, your mom, and all who are shattered by this untimely loss.

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Katy de Jongh's avatar

Hi Niki 💙 I too am undone. Dad and I marveled at your boat and talked about how fun it would be to live like you and Jaime out at sea.

God I love Dads laugh. I love that they made you feel welcomed at school.

We feel your love and concern. Thank you for wrapping us in it. Hugs back to you and Jaime.

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Charell's avatar

😭😭😭💔💔💔

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Victoria's avatar

Heartfelt condolences, Katy.

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Kathleen Whitman's avatar

We love you so much!

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Niki Fox Elenbaas's avatar

Remember to breathe deeply every now and then. Tragedies like you have experienced can make you hold your breath as the waves roll over.

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Niki Fox Elenbaas's avatar

Remember to breathe deeply every now and then. Tragedies like you have experienced can make you hold your breath as the waves roll over.

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